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October 26
迷戀 vs 真愛
我們常說和伴侶相處久了
兩人的感情就會慢慢地淡下來
其實是因為我們最初的那種強烈的 love feeling 只是迷戀
而不是真愛 ~~
過了一段日子後
當雙方相處久了經過了解後
就會發現彼此的人生觀和對事物的價值觀的不同之處
於是相處上漸漸出現問題
若然雙方又無法互相體諒和遷就的話
彼此的感情當然就會越來越淡了
若是雙方經過了解後
彼此都能做到欣賞對方的優點和包容對方的缺點
仍能好好相處的話
這個階段的愛也就不再是迷戀
而是真愛 ~~
這樣子兩人的感情不但不會變淡還只會越來越濃
彼此都能互相為對方付出和犧牲的感情才是真愛
這樣的感情才能使人滿足
才能給予人幸福
才能歷久彌新 ~~
迷戀帶來一份沒有理智的虛幻而短暫的狂喜
而真愛卻帶來一份經歷過矛盾痛苦的相互了解與體諒過程後而得到的真實而恆久的快樂 ~~
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